Thursday, August 8, 2013

SEX

It's kind of hard to believe that virtue is that scarce into today's society-I mean isn't that alarming?

Since when did sex become that casual?

In most relationships these days, its sort of expected...Which explains why I'm single.

Seriously, if you're a woman of virtue, like myself, or maybe even a guy-dating is hard and one thing is for sure...

You can't compete with sex. I don't compete with sex.

The things teenager are doing these days are way past raunchy to say the least and most girls these days make it hard for the rest of us, who are willing to wait.

Companionships are SO hard to come by these days and it's easy to feel lonely at times...but you always have to remember to stay true to your character and virtue.

What ever happened to courting, being contempt with each other's company, having some one to love without the physical aspect of premarital sex?

In some of my past relationships, things would run smoothly until the point of expectancy...and that's when everything ended.

You learn to not get attached.

A point to take into perspective is that a worthy man will wait and respect your wishes. If you meet a guy that is constantly trying to pressure you into sex or doesn't respect your stance, he doesn't deserve you.

There are just so many reasons to wait...
  • It's a big decision, that should mot be taken lightly.
  • You can not change a person, the guy might have a bad reputation and sacrificing your virtue is not worth it.
  • STD's are BAD, some of them stay with you for life, abstinence is the best protection.
  • Unwanted pregnancy is not an easy situation, you have your whole future ahead of you, why hinder it?
  • Wouldn't it be romantic if your spouse is your last and first? That is love.
  • You are probably not the only woman in his life. You aren't.
  • Guys play games, do you really want the emotional stress?
  • If he pressures you in bed, do not succumb.
  • You don't owe any one a reason for why you are waiting, it's because you said so.
  • If you're having second thoughts, that's another reason to wait.
Things worth having are worth waiting for and the guy that will respect your wishes and wait for you is a guy worthy of your companionship. He'll find you...

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